Instagram user Saania Kasalkar posted a viral video on 25 November 2025, alleging that a group of Indian men stared creepily at her and her three cousins, including a 13-year-old, during a desert safari dinner in Dubai last week.
The clip, surpassing 1.4 million views, details the men’s 90-degree rotation to gaze persistently in a circular seating setup around a stage, ruining their family outing and prompting her plea in Hindi, “Yeh to Dubai hai, yahan par toh chhod do. Yahan par mat tado yaar.”
Online outrage has exploded with calls for police action and deportations, while some defend cultural norms; no official Dubai statements exist yet, but netizens urge immediate reporting. Stakeholders include the victim seeking awareness, critics blaming specific groups, and supporters praising her courage.
Viral Video Breakdown
Saania Kasalkar, from the US, shared the reel captioned “May this reel reach the friends and family of these men!” to highlight the discomfort. She described enjoying her Dubai trip with family until the desert safari night, a popular tourist event with dune bashing, buffets, and performances.
The seating formed circles around a central circular stage, with a buffet behind guests. Ahead sat the men, identified as Indian by their Hindi speech and Gujarati chatter noted by her cousins. With time before shows, they turned fully to stare, making the women feel targeted and embarrassed in the crowded venue.
Victim’s Emotional Recount
In the video, Saania expressed shock, saying, “The behaviour of these Indian men was so creepy that it almost ruined our trip, and no, it wasn’t even in India.” She stressed the group dynamic, “It was me and my three cousin sisters, like what the hell. I swear to God, it was so awkward and so embarrassing. One of my sisters was 13, and I felt so sad.”
The frustration peaked with her Hindi outburst about expected better conduct in Dubai. This personal angle humanises the story, shifting focus from abstract tourism woes to real emotional harm on young women abroad.
Online Backlash
The post drew massive reactions, with one user stating, “Sorry you had to go through all of that. It’s honestly disturbing how some men behave with those creepy stares. Big respect for speaking about it openly, your words will definitely give strength to others.”
Many advised calling Dubai police on the spot, noting strict laws could lead to arrests or deportations, like “It’s Dubai, one call and they will never see daylight.” Debates split along lines of gender norms, nationality, and traveller etiquette, amplifying concerns over Indian tourists’ global reputation. No arrests or investigations reported, but the clip’s spread pressures accountability.
The Logical Indian’s Perspective
The Logical Indian condemns any conduct that intimidates or objectifies women, regardless of origin, as it undermines safety and respect worldwide.
We promote kindness, empathy, and self-reflection to build harmony among travellers, urging families to instil courteous behaviour early. Positive change starts with dialogue over division, ensuring joyful shared spaces.
