A Bengaluru techie was allegedly drugged and robbed of valuables worth about ₹6.8–₹6.9 lakh after meeting a woman from a dating app; the alleged incident occurred at a hotel in Indiranagar on the night of November 1 and came to light when the victim filed a police complaint on November 8.
Investigations are ongoing, with police reviewing hotel CCTV, call records, and app data; the accused has not been publicly identified in official statements released so far. The case has sparked discussions on online dating safety and platform responsibility.
Dating App Scam
The incident emerged from a complaint filed with Bengaluru police, detailing an encounter arranged via a dating app. After initial meetings and a late-night visit to a hotel, the complainant alleges that he was drugged and later woke to find valuables missing.
Media reports indicate that the valuables include gold jewelry and cash, and that the accused is reportedly from Tamil Nadu. Law enforcement is tracing the suspect and consolidated timelines using hotel records, CCTV footage, and digital communications.
This event has prompted broader conversations about safety protocols for online dating and how hotels and platforms can cooperate with authorities.
Key details and statements
According to police accounts reported by multiple outlets, the complainant said he and the woman met at a restaurant in Indiranagar before moving to a hotel, where he allegedly consumed food and water that led to unconsciousness.
The next morning, he discovered theft of gold jewelry, a headset, and around ₹10,000 in cash, with total losses estimated between ₹6.8 lakh and ₹6.9 lakh.
Investigators have sought surveillance footage from the hotel, checked guest logs, and are examining chat records and app data with appropriate consents.
The hotel has reportedly been contacted for records, and authorities are pursuing leads to identify the woman and recover the stolen items. Official statements emphasize ongoing investigations and cooperation with digital service providers and the hotel.
How to Stay Safe from Dating App Scams
Online connections can be exciting, but also risky if trust builds too fast. Here’s how to protect yourself.
- Meet in public places for initial interactions; avoid private rooms or hotels.
- Don’t leave your food or drink unattended, even briefly.
- Verify identity through video calls or mutual connections before meeting.
- Avoid sharing personal or financial details early in communication.
- Inform a friend or family member about your plans and location.
- Trust your instincts, if something feels off, walk away.
- Report suspicious profiles directly to the dating app and local authorities.
The Logical Indian’s Perspective
The Logical Indian recognises the seriousness of such incidents and stands for responsible online engagement, enhanced safety measures on dating platforms, and transparent collaboration between apps, hotels, and police.
The piece advocates for practical safety tips for users, improved design choices by platforms to flag suspicious behaviour, and the sharing of accessible safety resources by service providers. It also invites readers to contribute ideas on how communities can support victims while promoting calm, constructive discourse about online dating safety.

